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This is an invitation to come back into intentional relationship with your erotic self.

Through touch.
Through sensation.
Through choice, curiosity, and community.

Next container: March 2026

Session 1: March 8th 12-2pm PST Session 2: March 15th 12-2pm PST Session 3: March 22nd 12-2pm PST Session 4: March 29th 12-2pm PST

A 4-week virtual somatic self-pleasure series + permission circle by and for queer community.

Getting Down, Getting Free

* for privacy, sessions will not be recorded

What this space is for...

Self-pleasure is often taught as something secretive, shameful, rushed, goal-oriented, and/or disconnected from the rest of our lives.

In this space, we slow down.

We treat self-pleasure as:

  • a practice of agency

  • a site of creative expression

  • a doorway into liberation and self-trust

The Container...

  • 4 weekly sessions

  • 2 hours per session (8 live hours total)

  • 15–20 participants to keep the space intimate and well-held

The investment...

$333 per person

Payment plan offered to support access:

  • $111/month for 3 months

What we’ll explore together...

Session 1: Grounding & Permission

We’ll co-create a container rooted in consent, agency, and choice. We’ll explore our personal relationships with self-pleasure and begin with foundational somatic practices to support safety, presence, and curiosity.

Session 2: Anatomy, Arousal & Touch

We’ll explore anatomy, arousal patterns, and touch techniques - while expanding pleasure beyond our familiar erogenous zones. We’ll honor our existing habits and invite new possibilities without pressure to change anything that already works.

Session 3: Sensation, Rhythm & Erotic Expression

This session centers how pleasure moves through your body. We’ll explore sensation, pacing, pressure, breath, sound, and movement — expanding our erotic expression by following sensation rather than chasing outcomes.

Session 4: Integration & Intention

We’ll focus on integrating what you’ve learned into a self-pleasure practice. There will be an optional, consent-based invitation to participate in a collective self-pleasure experience, shaped collaboratively by the needs and boundaries of everyone present.

This offering is for queer folks of all genders except cis men.

  • All bodies and all genitals are welcome here. Including packers, strap ons, and gender affirming gear you may be in relationship with or curious about.

    *If you experience energetic genitals and erotic sensation beyond the physical, that belongs here too.

    You’re invited if you’re 18+ and you resonate with any of the following:

    • Your pleasure practice feels layered with shame, boredom, or stuck patterns

    • You don’t currently have a self-pleasure practice, but you want one

    • Your body has changed (HRT, surgery, pregnancy, injury, transition, etc.) and you’re longing to reconnect with your body as it is now

    • You’re craving more expansion, creativity, fulfillment, and freedom in your erotic expression

    • You value interdependence and want to explore self-pleasure in community rather than in isolation

Who this space is for...

What makes this space different...

This is not a technique-heavy class.
This is not about pushing past your edges.

  • This space centers:

    • consent, agency, and choice

    • trauma-aware, nervous-system-conscious practices

    • honoring what already works and inviting gentle expansion

    • learning with others, not being watched or evaluated

You are always invited - never required - to participate in any practice.

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Hi QT! My name is Che Che Luna (they/them). As a queer, trans, mixed, neurodivergent, kinky, polyamorous being, it is my honor and life’s work to support queer and trans community in reclaiming the body as a source of pleasure, transformation, erotic aliveness, autonomy, interconnectedness, and love. I have been a sex + pleasure educator for 8 years now, and am currently a student of Somatic Sex Education at the Institute for the Study of Somatic Sex Education. I am so ready to hold space for you to live into your truth, heal from systemic oppression, embody your desires, and find your own access points into your sensual body and the collective interdependent body of the more-than-human world.

I've learned to view my body as a vessel of love and holiness. I can witness her curves, the dimples in my skin ,and instead of judgement, I am in awe of the miraculous nature of my existence.

- Sarah Persitz

Working with Che Che feels like the most intimate revolution. Through loving ourselves completely, reclaiming our bodies, and celebrating our authenticity, we are free. Che Che is such a skilled listener and mirror and working with them has reconnected me with my own erotic wisdom.

Autumn Wheeler

A note on consent & choice...

You are always welcome to:

  • keep your camera off

  • modify or skip practices

  • participate without touching your genitals

  • listen, witness, or rest

Your “no” is as valuable as your “yes.”

This space may be for you if…

You’re ready to:

  • be in your bodymind with tenderness and curiosity

  • unlearn shame at your own pace

  • experience pleasure as something alive and evolving

  • feel less alone in your erotic becoming

Ready to join?

If your body is curious - even quietly - you’re welcome here.